If you give too much to children, you take away their gratitude, without which they will feel empty – Nebojsa Jovanovic

Some people who do not believe in their own worth tend to give too much. As if they want to make up for quality with quantity. But too much, which is a consequence of not valuing oneself, turns into too little. How?
Well, if they don’t value their giving, how will others value it? In addition, if something is constantly on your mind, you stop being aware of its value. You mean it. Like air.
Who is aware of the preciousness of air until it feels its lack? He is there, as if he exists because of us and that he will always be there, he does not ask for anything, he just serves… Well, when he is not there, we feel his life value.

And some people, unaware of their own values, act like air. Thus, others to whom they are implied lose their sense of their value, they cease to be aware of them, as if they are not gaining anything of value. As if ungrateful. How can you be grateful for something whose value you do not feel. What you gain in this way, so implies that you lose the sense of its value, loses value and becomes too small. The circle is closed by the donor confirming through the reactions of others what he started from – that it is not worth it.
Man is not air, he was not created to serve someone, but to exchange with others as valuable with valuable. The one you serve loses you in value, you take away from him and not give, giving him too much. You push him into ingratitude by devaluing yourself
If you do that, you take away the gratitude of the children, without which they will feel empty. And the empty are greedy.
Thus, someone who feels worthless is transferred to the one who is served by the feeling of worthlessness hidden behind spoiled selfishness and ingratitude.

Transliterated by Mai

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